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Ten Obvious Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You


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 楼主| 发表于 2014-5-15 16:06 | 显示全部楼层
Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you.
1. Lovely smile
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.
2. Shy blush
Perhaps you know how it’s difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesn’t mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.
3. Eye contact
This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right? It’s the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.
4. Mirroring
Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.
5. Hands on hips
If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally don’t like when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still it’s one of the signs he is flirting with you.
6. A flirting touch
If your crush touches you, it’s definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldn’t do it. After all, he might be your hubby!
7. Head Tilts
The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if I’m not interested in that man.
8. Dilated pupils
Sometimes our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores you and is highly interested in you.
9. Raised eyebrows
Your crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!
10. Fidgeting
Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? I’m pretty sure you do and it’s okay. You are just nervous and it’s actually a good nervous. It’s all about expectation since you don’t know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.
Now that you’re aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?
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发表于 2014-5-15 20:38 | 显示全部楼层
Can u speak chinese?
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发表于 2014-5-15 21:07 | 显示全部楼层
终于译出来了……LZ你是要检测我的英语么
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发表于 2014-5-15 21:19 | 显示全部楼层
为毛不翻译过来
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发表于 2014-5-16 11:53 | 显示全部楼层
老虎! 人家不懂英语啦!Please, translate in chinese, 懂?
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发表于 2014-5-16 11:58 | 显示全部楼层
最恶心就是有些不自量力的男人,人家厌恶他,讨厌他,他就偏偏故意在你面前引人注目!
真他妈的噁心!
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发表于 2014-5-16 12:03 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 伏绸褶 于 2014-5-16 12:05 编辑

他故意在人家面前引人注意,可人家偏偏每次转身,连看也不看,
真他妈的他不死心,厚颜无耻地继续在你面前表演他的死人样子,真噁心得够呛,妈的!天下有如此让人噁心的人渣!
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发表于 2014-5-16 12:08 | 显示全部楼层
切,好男人?已经被送进受保护动物机构隐没啦!
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发表于 2014-5-16 12:12 | 显示全部楼层
妈的! 他是否坐立不安,跟我什么干系?他最好远离我!
妈的!每天看到他那样故意和有意识表演,实在噁心死!
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 楼主| 发表于 2014-5-16 16:44 | 显示全部楼层
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